loads going on in this thread,1. if you are 30 you have a load of mates(ones you have not seen since early 20's)who will be breaking up with there partners right about now! you can go out on the town with them!

+you can go looking for a famale without it being the search for a wife!!

++ if you are cripplingly shy remember there will be much the same type of women out in the same places as you ,just make the move they can only say no!**you dont hang yourself at this point**.