Trust me, it's the latter For day to day work related stuff, we converse through another office member, and if we REALLY need to speak (like I need some tools, or supplies etc) then it's via email or written letter

Sounds pathetic, and to be truthfull, it is a bit. But it's gone on so long now, thats it's now just the way it is. I don't like her, she don't like me - I have nothing to say to her, she seems fairly happy about it - everyones a winner