Half day today at work, anyway got finished earlier than planned was home for 11.30.

G/F supposed to be at work til 5 rang me said she was taking the afternoon off cos shes couldn't be bothered could she come round.

I'd already planned to sort the rear brakes and other bits on my car out with a mate and him (self employed) had arranged his work round it to leave this afternoon free to give us a hand. I said to her no she couldnt. She then had a go saying she doesn't know why I don't let her come round but I said "unless you want to get bored stood watching us fix a car then by all means come round...plus we need cups of tea"

Anyway she buggered off to a friends house. Just this second got a text saying "im coming to yours at 3 whether you want me to or not" to which I replied "we can't live in each others pockets as fas as I am concerned you ae busy until 5, i've made arrangements around this and don't you dare try and control me saying that you are coming at 3 so we can go do something" she has now started with the "why dont you want to spend any time with me" line.

End of the day she said she was busy until 5pm so I made plans in MY free time to sort stuff, so that we were both free AFTER 5pm to spend time together

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