You need to load the plug in from the mgtek web addy I gave you. It gies you a 30 day trial of the softeware, and I liked it so much, that I actually paid the £8.50 or whatever it was to have the fully working version (the trial is fully working, but expires after 30 days and can't be reloaded, so to continue using it you need to buy the full version) All I have to do is plug in the ipod, open WMP, it shows ipod listed, click the sync tab, and then using the library in WMP I highlight what I want to transfer and hit SYNC
Only thing is, you can only do it from the library in WMP, so you have to have it populated. With the Anapod/Yamipod/sharepod type programmes you might be able to use it a bit more freely and simply drag and drop files like you would with a flash memory stick thing....