Originally Posted by nickscunny
im in the same predicament.....
However i havent seen my 3 and 3/4 yr old son since october.... My ex decided i was bad for my son because i spoil him and im well off than her and her boyfriend. I havent a clue why thats bad and why she stopped contact. I have gone over to hers on several occasions but she is either out or rings the police im hassling her. Im at my wits end tbh, i had a great thing going with my son. He knew me as dad although he calls her bf dad too which is confusing for him. He loves his cars too, i still have all his xmas presents in the spare room.
I went to the soliciters a while back and we sorted things mutually and i have been seeing him for over a year. I want to go back to the soliciters and get court proceedings but im scared as to how much it costs, i dont know if i can afford to.
In a nut shell she wants her boyfriend to be the dad to my son and doesnt want me around complicating things. She already has two kids to her boyfriend.
Dont really know what to do anymore......
Sorry for hi-jacking your thread mate..... reading this has just made me think of things....
I feel for you mate, my story was similar, only when they stopped contact her now hubby bought me round an injunction from the court so couldn't go round, not that i would, but i had xmas & birthday pressies left here for him, then when he finally could open them he was too old for them
Know what you mean about solicitor's fees, when she stopped contact the first time i was suicidal so got put on sick with depression then had legal aid, as i'm still on sick i guess i'll still get legal aid.
It's worth going to a solicitor mate, you never know, that letter to her from the solicitor might make her just agree to longer contact.