im in the same predicament.....

However i havent seen my 3 and 3/4 yr old son since october.... My ex decided i was bad for my son because i spoil him and im well off than her and her boyfriend. I havent a clue why thats bad and why she stopped contact. I have gone over to hers on several occasions but she is either out or rings the police im hassling her. Im at my wits end tbh, i had a great thing going with my son. He knew me as dad although he calls her bf dad too which is confusing for him. He loves his cars too, i still have all his xmas presents in the spare room.
I went to the soliciters a while back and we sorted things mutually and i have been seeing him for over a year. I want to go back to the soliciters and get court proceedings but im scared as to how much it costs, i dont know if i can afford to.
In a nut shell she wants her boyfriend to be the dad to my son and doesnt want me around complicating things. She already has two kids to her boyfriend.
Dont really know what to do anymore......



Sorry for hi-jacking your thread mate..... reading this has just made me think of things....