mich got moved on to the ward last night

now for security resons its like fort knox i can live with that but there ware about 10 people waiting to get on to the ward.the person at the front buzzed & was asked who they had come to see.all good so far till the door opens & everyone goes in whats the FUCKING point of having a locked door.
so we go in & have or visit & mich wanted some extra things so i came home & got them got back to the hospital at 7.55 visiting is supposed to end at 8 .
mich needed to pee so i was watching Jacob while she was gone anyway this jobsworth comes in VISITING IS OVER YOU HAVE TO GO i tried to tell her i was watching my son while my wife went to the toilet before i had finished VISITING IS OVER YOU HAVE TO GO NOW now that really pissed me off so i just stayed put

after mich had come back & with jobsworth still staring at me i said good bye to them both & walked out

as i walked out i asked another nurse what time visiting was as my mam wanted to go over today
the reply was 10 till 4 all good till i said i couldn't make it over & my mother was going

she said well who ever is chosen to visit is the only visitor allowed no swapping over to other visitors. i had to walk away as i was starting to boil

my mam has gone over this morning & i will be going over at about 1.30

i have also just found out mich's sister traveled up from Cornwall last night to see us all so at 1.30 when we go over if they don't let us in i don't know who will snap faster me or her sis

anyway rant over im just pissed off that they have so many stupid rules that just make thing difficult i should be allowed to visit my wife when ever i want
if i was working all day & could only get there say after midnight i should be able to go to see her & my son without people thinking they are god & telling me what to do