i know, half the poblem is ive told her exactly what mischieve i been up to in past relationships, and she works where my ex used to work. Now she says she cant trust me, i mean what i did was so stupid it was unbelievable i would be able to here the crys of NNNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOO from here, but i have explained to her exactly what happened and she has spoken to the girl in question.....