if you don't mod enough you are seen to be a weak mod
if you mod to omuch you are seen to be over enthusiatic (or eagle for everyone else who's got too big a sig )

you wil never please all the users all the time so if you get a bit of flack it's all in a days work, afer all, you've got your own room to chill in so if you think you are being singled out, spread the word
it's amazing how well some behave when they know that there is an eagle eye on them