Originally Posted by jay.
basicly dojj i called nutter a waste of spunk ? which ok wasnt right then he says cant wait to meet me ! i pm him my addy which some how turns into a threat and he wants to call the police
then a mod bans him then it turns out its all my fault as i have a grievence aparantly
my take i have managed to live my life without johnny dont really need him to carry on with my life so ehy should i be bothered what he or any body else thinks ?
from that, it would seem that someone else has banned him, not you, and the finger is being pointed at you
i had a similar experience and found that no matter how much you argue your point, some peole won't want to see things your way as they have already made up their minds
as you say, it won't matter what anyone else thinks so don't let it bother you

you've always come across as a fairly impartial bod and everyone says things they may later regret, it's not like you've accused him of soemthing really heniuos or slandered him or the like so i'm sure someone will reach an amicable colculsion, hopefully jonnhy