Alex - Now I'm even more confused!!

I will try and get my head round that lot though.
collierm - I have just had a quick look at that tool, there is alot of info in there, so I will continue looking!! LOL.
Metpol - I am looking now for free software to do this, it looks like there are a few programs.
I also tripped over spy software for MSN Messenger. Anyone used any of these?
The joys of pre-teenage kids eh?