well spent the day at the car.
heres the part i was waiting for... turbo oil return stub.

cost me £17 from a garage in essex because ford dont sell em anymore (when they did it was £1.70 :getlost: )
anyhoo got it fitted along with the turbo and exhaust and got the car turning over from the key. sadly it wouldnt start and after a few attempts the starter looked as if it had fooked. removed it and turns out its only the solenoid, will get another in the next couple of days.
anyways, with the car turning over from the key i stripped down the turbo loom completely and removed everything that unplugged (taped up everything that didnt and i dont need), then labelled everything that was left so next time im out at the car im gonna strip the dash out and any of the current loom that i dont need and HOPEFULLY get the car running!
loom stripped and taped up.