Davey C - ive got one connector from blueunplugged and it was the wrong one. The plug had blade type connectors but the BMW has round type pins (19 pin?). The guy at BlueUnplugged said they werent available.
rssteve - tried both them mate but neither way worked. This is what is confusing me :S. All I can think of is ive got the wrong wire but up 99.9% sure its correct!
Chris