Thanks chris
The next thig on the list was to sort the handling or at least start, I did some shims from Rainbum (Thanks Mike) and changed all the tyres from ultra crap pikey bald ones to falken 512's on the back and 452's on the front, this made almost no difference to the understeer problem after consulting the understeer god who is B9KOS we decided the front of my car had got lower

and it was a shaft trying to pull out snagging and causing the wheel to jurk that was causing the understeer, i got some new -25mm (thanks JTECHSAFF) fitted them and voila fixed, or at least much better

it was then time to think about some brakes, I went through the old what do I do who do I buy from, new or secondhand etc etc but Rich said he was going to bum me unless I bought some brand new AP's and not being that way inclined (unlike him) I though I better buy the brakes
unfortunately because of my wheels I have had to fit some spacers to clear the brakes, 16mm ones, on each side

it equates to me having et25 wheels lol it does however seem to have made the car handle even better.
the front brakes where followed almost imediately by some rearbrakes (thanks Jaycos)
which unfortunately didnt fit but where soon swapped with B9KOS for his 305mm rears so it all worked out lovely