When I bought my first BT dongle (cheapo tenner one off ebay ) it came with a mini-CD with some "BlueSolei" software. It was complete tosh, and kept fucking my PC up

I binned that, bought a better device, which when fitted, was auto installed using the MS drivers. Worked fine, but didn't like the interface too much. Then got hold of the Widcomm stack, and been using it ever since.... I'll try and email it to you, not sure if GMail will let me tho cos it is an exe... Post your email addy up and I'll have a go tho