All i can really say at this stage is if everything is hunky dorey with the relay out, and plays up with it in. Leave the fucker out.
To be honest, i haven't had a MK4 myself for a while now, its been all MK3's And MK1 orions since i was 18 and im 23 now, so my memory isnt the most familiar with them. The arrangement looks about right though.
If you look i think all the relays are numbered either on the fuse box board itself or the lid.
Find out the relay number and i can probably tell you more