Have told her that ive been called into work tomorrow evening so will just blank her most of the day tomorrow then borrow a mates car and sit and wait I think. I do have a key (somewhere ) so can gain access if needed.

Regarding the texts, yeah everytime she gets one she usually says "oh its only Andy" (a good mate of both mine and hers, deffo nothing going on ther as hes gay) or "its only John" which is the father of her kid, but is Citroen man, not Civic man