Hang on Ginge, im still trying to make sence of what you have posted. As for sending it to him, did request a post man or he wouldnt have got it.....
I sent it to the registered paypal address, which is the ONLY address i need to send it to but as a good will gesture i then sent it to the new address he requested. It then got damaged by parcel force, somthing he admited to. At his request i then aranged postage back to my address at a cost to myself. I am then going to refund him the full amount but he can fuk off for the postage back to mine.

And breath..............