Incidentally, we are both of the opposite sex if that makes any difference.

Thats part of my problems at the moment. I'm holding out for things to get better and I really hope they do and I s'pose thats why I haven't been prepared to give up as I want to fight for who I love. At times there seems to be light at the end of the tunnel but at other times I feel like I'm been emotionally snookered. I just dont think I've got much fight left in me now. How much time should I give them?

Its easy to say go out and do this and that, but how do I start it. I'm quite a shy person so getting to meet new people can be very difficult for me

I really want the loves of my life back but I dont know how to do it any more. I cant even begin to imagine my future without them. To me thats unthinkable. If my feelings and love was not so strong I would of moved on, but I cant.