sometimes lifes challenges are not always fun sometimes they take inner strength and inhuman resolve to get through
if yer cars broke, you take it to a garage!!
if your arms broke you go to the hospital
if your minds broke( not saying yours is) you go to counsellers and shrinks and talk it through
go talk it through with a proffesional dude(or dudette) that is what they are there for, its confidential and it works(believe me, i know)
and admittion of the problem is the first and most important stage of recovery, nobody says you have to deal with shit on your own,
keep your chin up and do not allow this person to run your life from there own little world, stand up and say you are either a part of my life in a way that is acceptable to both parties or your not a part of my life....end of!!!
its a hard thing to do but with support , it is so simple and in time you will know which ever way you choose(and only you will know deep down what is right)to go, it will be for the better
Good luck in your choices
Pugo
whoa!!! where did that come from?????