I think the problem is, when people think they are being accused of something (eg feeling victimised/baited by Andy)..they are probably more likely to want an argument. I.e. someone accused of stealing, if they are accused of it a few times, chances are they'll steal something..

I talk to Andy and think he's a nice bloke..but I do read some things here and think ''hmm, that could be taken badly''...whether it's intentional or not..only he knows how things are intended to read..

Asking people to ''prove'' something is a bit difficult Andy, as the things that could be taken wrongly/as baiting by someone who doesn't get on with you or expects rudeness from you, can also be taken as factual speech by someone who likes you (eg ''bad photoshop'')..so whatever somebody quotes here is going to cause an argument on the ''proof'' front...