Sorry to hear that mate.
My Wife of 7 years who i first met and fancied when I was 12, left me and took my kids to go and live with another bloke on my Birthday last year.
To say it fooked my head up is an under statement.
A year has passed now and it does get easier, got my divorce through last week and should have my final papers this week (on my birthday as it happens).
My outlook on life is now a lot different and all for the better. These things make us the people we are and every cloud does have a silver lining.
Get your arse up to Brum when ever you fancy a break matey!!!
Sean..