If i take the relay out, the car still runs Is that right
errrr no !
if it is the ign relay ???
unless its been bypassed - in the past ,
the ign relay should then feed the fuel pump relay iirc ( dont make me get the diagram out !! )
the ign relay is triggered by the ckps via the ecu , what colour wire have you got on your ckps ??
for emergency purposes if you are really stuck i can tell you how to remove the relays ( not hard just dont want to tell everyone as there will be loads a cossies with no saftey devices on them !!

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