Any joy yet?

The small one should be easy. Don't know what to suggest there. Does it seem to be too small diameter ot fit on? Manifold side, carrier side, or both. Perhaps lighlty smear a bit of vaseline or oil just ot see if this will help it slip over. Only need a small amount.

Seem to remember my turbo side of the other hose also sat on a strange angle & had to cut it acros to sit flush with the turbo housing.
If you do cut it, do it a bit at a time otherwise you may take too much off and then it won't fit properly & keep coming off or sit at another wrong angle.