Sounds like u need to get ur car checked out to me mate.

Does it have the switch that aims the headlights up and down?

If it does, adjust it to 0 setting and try it then. If it's set to 3 then ur gonna be lighting up ur front bumper more or less/

If u haven't got this swithc, try taking it to a garage to get the headlight aim checked out and adjusted if needs be. All MOT testing stations have a bit of kit used for doing this.

Hope this helps