ztee can u please edit ur post so it does not make it look like im starting a fight with this girl, this is a public forum as stated by users on here frequently. I couldnt care less or think more/less of her if the girl accepts the money or not but surely there is more to it than that for her to consider; ie what will her boyfriend/partner say about men donating money to her, can she take people talking about her like i mentioned above. My post was not intended to be cynical of her or anything merely offering her advice on what she can expect.

An example of sacrifice is posted in your husbands/fiance sig "where is my cossie, its on zt`d left hand" so he sacrificed something to gain something which is maybe what Maria has or may have to do.