I never saw the programme but i get the jist of what happened
As for discipline, i'd prefer to discipline my child myself. If she wants something in a shop, a no is a no. I only have to look at her wrong and she knows
Its parents leaving their children in nurseries, day-in, day-out, 8 hours a pop and they wonder why their kids don't listen to them? Its because they never see their parents to get diciplined, they probably listen to the nursery staff more and have more respect for them!