Nobody said if i slam my car will it handle worse.
I think that some people just like the slammed look and not really bothered how it will handle.
More so on small powered cars as the owners like more 'show' than 'go'.
Where as on high powered cars its all to do with handlig and braking etc

As for the original post, if you want it to handle well stick with a 35 drop.if you want it to look the nuts drop it 50 -60.