Jim - I have one of these.
I may be wrong, so don't quote me on this, but I think you can use the kit to send info to two devices - ie the guage and your ECU.
This bit in the ad on ebay (if I'm reading correctly) seems to back this up:
It features the same industry-leading patented digital circuit found in the proven LM-1, and includes digital in & out, plus two programmable analogue outputs. The LC-1 can connect directly to the XD-1 for a standalone AFR gauge, and is ideal for using with an ECU
I don't think you need to 'spit' the signal so to speak - I think you can use one of those outputs or the digital out.
Of course I'm prob hopelessly wrong

, but that's how I think it works.
Simon