OK, I've finished it now

I lose 0.1V between the battery and pump
I've done pretty much as I described above, here's a couple fo pics
Fuseholder:
New Relay:
New Earth:
I ended up just buying new flying leads from ford for the fuel pump connections, and have run the underside wires in the corrougated sleeving for a bit more security.
Pretty happy with it TBH
Neil.