your first mistake was handing over any money imo

you should have wrote the the comapanys agreeing to a repayment plan as legally they have to allow that aslong as its reasonable and let hr sort her own shite out

spending problems are no different to drug problems except its sooo easy to hide it and not socially un acceptable

never loan real money to mates you can afford to loose imo as all that happens is when you got no cash then you expect it back and the others dont always see fairness and helping the same way


she got a bonus and it could be the first time shes had money in some time, thats why she spend it as shes had no cash a while,,,,,,,,,, shows that even though you helped her all you did was sort the problem at that time

shes still got it though