Hi, jus got a samsung p400 and i got a disc to load onto the pc (Easy GPRS) whatever that is, basically can d.load stuff from my fone to my pc, but having probs

cd is installed, fone connected to pc with the cable i got via a serial port, it sais activate infra red so i did but i dunt think my pc has anything infra red to pick the signal up?? so am i fooked? how do i get a infra red thingy to make it work? fecking things!