So guys... not wanting to throw oil on the fire and don't take it badly but I don't quite follow you......

You are a "tad worried" about coming to a Pf meet because you don't know anyone, fair enough. So, you are planning a pre-meeting with a bunch of people you don't know either...

Oh well, got to be male logic as I am well confused!!

Anyhow, hope to see you all at the next meet, whichever and wherever that will be. And we will prove to you that we don't bite!