Pon, i know where you are coming from, and i always try to give people the benefit of the doubt.
I always assume that stuff people say on here that looks nasty if viewed the wrong way is just pisstaking (thats how i always am for exmaple, i NEVER mean any malice in anything i say, even me and IMA got on fine when i met him)
So when i met dingy i tried to just talk civilly to him and give him a chance, but it turned out he is a cock in real life too