My dad passed way this morning
07-01-2010, 01:26 PM
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Things will improve with time a bit of support. I'm not going to say it'll go away completely, but some normality will soon return.
My mum passed away about 7 weeks ago now, so I have some understanding of what you're going through as I'm still dealing with that and the aftermath that comes with it.
Thoughts with you, mate.
07-01-2010, 02:39 PM
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OMG Stuart im so so so sorry i know how close you and your dad were, i dont know what to say i really dont 
, if you need anything anything at all just please dont hesitate in calling, stupid question i know but hows mum???
i just cant believe it
, if you need anything anything at all just please dont hesitate in calling, stupid question i know but hows mum???i just cant believe it
07-01-2010, 03:31 PM
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sorry to hear that my friend jus spend sum time with family or sum ''funny'' friends i no u may not feel like it but it will help..........trust me!!....stay strong fella!!
jus spend sum time with family or sum ''funny'' friends i no u may not feel like it but it will help..........trust me!!....stay strong fella!!
07-01-2010, 06:26 PM
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So Sorry to here this mate, its a horrible time right now. Just be close with your family etc. If want a chat at all mate drop me a pm etc. As i know what your going through.
Thoughts with you and family. RIP.
Thoughts with you and family. RIP.
07-01-2010, 07:09 PM
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If you want to talk about him, and any of the happy memories you held, or even just how hard youre finding it, then dont bottle it up honey.
Im so sorry for your loss, youve got a crackin circle of friends Stu, they will all be there for ya if you need em.
x
07-01-2010, 07:16 PM
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sorry to hear this buddy i lost my dad at the end of last year to a short battle of cancer of the brain there is no way to describe the feeling just be strong mate and keep loved ones close really sorry for your loss
07-01-2010, 07:17 PM
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Very sad news indeed fella, and im sorry to hear that. Never really know what to say to anyone who has suffered any loss, that will make any difference. Be strong chap.
07-01-2010, 07:19 PM
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sorry to hear this mate, i lost my dad in feb last year, and i still feel empty. i know just what your going thru!
im really sorry for your loss.
im really sorry for your loss.
07-01-2010, 07:34 PM
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mate my dad died the 10th of june year before last whilst waiting for a heart transplant but why in hospital got mrsa i felt the same and i really feel for you and your family it fortunatly was the first person i had lost in my family whilst ive been alive and i couldnt think straight or anything as said over time it gets better ..
07-01-2010, 07:38 PM
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No one can really say anything just know you have two options with life.
You can cherish the times you had together and celebrate your life or....
Just remember the life you shared and it was his time.
If you can find a way to channel any energy be it anger sadness etc into something positive then do it.
Everyone deals with situations differently and I or anyone else is not going to be able to tell you how to do that.
I have lost someone and I spent months denying it...
I even remember saying im just popping out to see...
So we all handle it differently.
Heres the problem we cant shift emotion until we let go of it and we cant let go of it because we're scared to.
All you can do is accept that its a part of human life and celebrate what you had.
But that my friend is never ever easy and I doubt for one second you can do that.
Just keep your head up yeah x
You can cherish the times you had together and celebrate your life or....
Just remember the life you shared and it was his time.
If you can find a way to channel any energy be it anger sadness etc into something positive then do it.
Everyone deals with situations differently and I or anyone else is not going to be able to tell you how to do that.
I have lost someone and I spent months denying it...
I even remember saying im just popping out to see...
So we all handle it differently.
Heres the problem we cant shift emotion until we let go of it and we cant let go of it because we're scared to.
All you can do is accept that its a part of human life and celebrate what you had.
But that my friend is never ever easy and I doubt for one second you can do that.
Just keep your head up yeah x
07-01-2010, 08:39 PM
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Sorry for your loss fella, hope you can look back at the good times and know your old man would want you to be smiling when you remember him and not be filled with sadness.
Nothing to say he aint looking down and looking out for you, so think of him every day and remember he is always there anytime you let you mind allow him to be.
Nothing to say he aint looking down and looking out for you, so think of him every day and remember he is always there anytime you let you mind allow him to be.
07-01-2010, 09:20 PM
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Really sorry to hear about your sad loss mate. My sincere condolences to you and your family.
Not been active on this forum for very long but already i know it's quite a tight knit community with a good bunch of people on it and i'm sure everybodys thoughts are with you.
Take it easy mate.
Not been active on this forum for very long but already i know it's quite a tight knit community with a good bunch of people on it and i'm sure everybodys thoughts are with you.
Take it easy mate.
07-01-2010, 11:02 PM
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I'm sorry to read the bad news Stu RIP
Unfortunatly the only guarantee we have in life is that everyone's got to go sometime Try & stay strong dude.
RIP Unfortunatly the only guarantee we have in life is that everyone's got to go sometime
Try & stay strong dude.