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Old 13-10-2004, 11:18 AM
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He played ya sister, ok, you may not be happy about this and neither is anyone else

Has he got emotional problems

Speak to him, ask him why he did this to your sister and try and help a friend whilst also protecting your sisters interets

Not like he hit her or anything or anything more severe, this happens all the time (maybe not for 9 years but...)
Old 13-10-2004, 11:34 AM
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A good mechanic is hard to find

Tell him he's been a naughty boy and that he should behave himself!

Not a nice situation, sounds like your stuck between a rock and a hard place.
Old 13-10-2004, 11:40 AM
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I still used to go to my ex's dad when my car needed work years ago.
The problem is between your sister and him, not YOU and him! Dont see the prob myself....
Old 13-10-2004, 11:52 AM
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Its all ok cheatin on someone, but when theres kids and famillys to be considered what he's done is a fookin disgrace. I say gte some mates go to his house in masks an beat the living shiot out of him, maybe smash a fewplate etc
Old 13-10-2004, 11:54 AM
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I would deck him first and then explain the reasoning behind it afterwards.

With him being a "mate" before hand will only make me angrier and beat the fooker even more than i i didnt know him as he has not only deceived your sister but you aswell.
Old 13-10-2004, 12:02 PM
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yeh real good mate he is playing your sister and probably laughing behind her back , imo not a mate at all

how can you continue being mates with someone like that , hes a tosser and should be delt with.

Old 13-10-2004, 12:07 PM
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he only come to help with the car to numb the guilt. Tell him to get fecked
Old 13-10-2004, 12:28 PM
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good mechanics are hard to find,
most men cheat if they get the chance, its just bad news that it happened to your sister
have all the guys who are slating him got their wifes/GF behind them watching them type ?
as jesus once said "let him that is without sin cast the first stone"

cheers nomad
Old 13-10-2004, 01:21 PM
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Errrrr geek.
Old 13-10-2004, 06:35 PM
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some really good valid comments and i really appreciate them all. I was working on me car today, by fitting sum ice etc, and he dropped by.
He has helped me all day etc and i did get round to the conversation with him as to why he had done what he had. His reply was beacuse of the kids he fathered he knew the birds would screw him over with the CSA if he left them. As he lied he dug a hole deeper and deeper. I dint really know what else to say, other than the fact he knows i am pissed off with him and as sum peeps above has sed, has took piss with me.
He sed he didnt mean anything like this but the lies etc all caught up with him. Its a hard decision.




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