I need advice, woman trouble (as usual)
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My best mate is having a very bizarre time at the moment. He's been with the same woman for 10 years and he's seriously contemplating chucking it in. He's had enough, he wants out, but he's worried about losing his house and having to move back in with his Mum again, he's pretty fiercely independent and that would be a big blow to his pride.
Problem 1: He was having an affair with a girl he worked with. Now she's very pretty and if any bloke saw her in a club, they'd be well keen to have a go. The problem is, she seems to like messing him around and having him jump through hoops for her. When they first started seeing each other she was really keen on him. One night they went to the pub with some other work colleagues and they had a game of truth or dare. Now Ants said truth a few times and ended up saying some fairly harmless stuff about what he'd gotten upto in his past, way before he met this girl. She, apparently, went mad and sent him a text the next day saying she didn't ever want to speak to him again as he wasn't trustworthy and she had no respect for him. OK, her choice.
2 days later she texts him saying she misses him and that she was wrong and starts spouting all this stuff about how they are meant to be together and she can see them married with kids. He's over the moon, thinking he may be able to have a future with her. Hence, she starts dicking him about again, saying she wants space, needs time, not sure if she loves him, blah blah blah.
Late night, she starts sending texts to him about what she wants him to do to her and sends pics of herself to him (leave that to your imagination ). Needless to say, he's really keen. Next day she blanks him again.
This just seems to be a recurring theme. He told her to get lost last night and leave him alone (Hooray). She sends a text today saying she loves him, wants to marry him and can't bear to be away from him. He's fooked in the head again, and he doesn't know what to do.
I've told him to ditch this mad psycho and concentrate on what he wants to do on his current relationship, but he's like "Oh she doesn't mean it, she's really sweet when were alone". He will not take it that shes stringing him along.
I'd appreciate any advice on how to help him, or if anyone knows anyone who's single in the Teesside area who'd like to take this mad bint on, drop me a PM.
Cheers
Matt
My best mate is having a very bizarre time at the moment. He's been with the same woman for 10 years and he's seriously contemplating chucking it in. He's had enough, he wants out, but he's worried about losing his house and having to move back in with his Mum again, he's pretty fiercely independent and that would be a big blow to his pride.
Problem 1: He was having an affair with a girl he worked with. Now she's very pretty and if any bloke saw her in a club, they'd be well keen to have a go. The problem is, she seems to like messing him around and having him jump through hoops for her. When they first started seeing each other she was really keen on him. One night they went to the pub with some other work colleagues and they had a game of truth or dare. Now Ants said truth a few times and ended up saying some fairly harmless stuff about what he'd gotten upto in his past, way before he met this girl. She, apparently, went mad and sent him a text the next day saying she didn't ever want to speak to him again as he wasn't trustworthy and she had no respect for him. OK, her choice.
2 days later she texts him saying she misses him and that she was wrong and starts spouting all this stuff about how they are meant to be together and she can see them married with kids. He's over the moon, thinking he may be able to have a future with her. Hence, she starts dicking him about again, saying she wants space, needs time, not sure if she loves him, blah blah blah.
Late night, she starts sending texts to him about what she wants him to do to her and sends pics of herself to him (leave that to your imagination ). Needless to say, he's really keen. Next day she blanks him again.
This just seems to be a recurring theme. He told her to get lost last night and leave him alone (Hooray). She sends a text today saying she loves him, wants to marry him and can't bear to be away from him. He's fooked in the head again, and he doesn't know what to do.
I've told him to ditch this mad psycho and concentrate on what he wants to do on his current relationship, but he's like "Oh she doesn't mean it, she's really sweet when were alone". He will not take it that shes stringing him along.
I'd appreciate any advice on how to help him, or if anyone knows anyone who's single in the Teesside area who'd like to take this mad bint on, drop me a PM.
Cheers
Matt
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" my best mate "
that old chestnut.....
usually things turn out for the best,,,..
unless she becomes deranged and kills him,....
tell "him" to do what he wants,......will be the best way.....
that old chestnut.....
usually things turn out for the best,,,..
unless she becomes deranged and kills him,....
tell "him" to do what he wants,......will be the best way.....
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Rule No 1
Don't EVER jump through more than 2 hoops for a woman. Thats not a relationship, thats dependence
Rule No 2
Keep it in your pants!
It sounds like the house is in joint names and hes worried his infidelity will cause him to loose it. Well IMHO Tough! You cant have your cake and eat it! You can be sure if it was the other way round he'd want her out if the house as a forfeit.
Don't EVER jump through more than 2 hoops for a woman. Thats not a relationship, thats dependence
Rule No 2
Keep it in your pants!
It sounds like the house is in joint names and hes worried his infidelity will cause him to loose it. Well IMHO Tough! You cant have your cake and eat it! You can be sure if it was the other way round he'd want her out if the house as a forfeit.
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Rule No 1
Don't EVER jump through more than 2 hoops for a woman. Thats not a relationship, thats dependence
Rule No 2
Keep it in your pants!
It sounds like the house is in joint names and hes worried his infidelity will cause him to loose it. Well IMHO Tough! You cant have your cake and eat it! You can be sure if it was the other way round he'd want her out if the house as a forfeit.
Don't EVER jump through more than 2 hoops for a woman. Thats not a relationship, thats dependence
Rule No 2
Keep it in your pants!
It sounds like the house is in joint names and hes worried his infidelity will cause him to loose it. Well IMHO Tough! You cant have your cake and eat it! You can be sure if it was the other way round he'd want her out if the house as a forfeit.
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" my best mate "
that old chestnut.....
that old chestnut.....
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Maybe if we saw the pics she was sendin we'd all think a bit clearer
I tell her to do one matey not worth the hassle if it was meant to be why she hot and cold all the time
if that was me id be
I tell her to do one matey not worth the hassle if it was meant to be why she hot and cold all the time
if that was me id be
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Bang her mate
She would soon give him the elbow and he can crack on with stuff....
She would soon give him the elbow and he can crack on with stuff....
not the brightest idea, did that to my ex, she had a go at me with a wood saw and did my hand in a treat, as i left (via the balcony) she was headed for the kitchen drawer
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He needs to get out of his current situation mate if his doubts are that strong, been there, kept the house and the Cossie....and the dog come to think of it, best thing I ever did. Bought the ex out and the debt is now cleared.
6 years on i'm happily married with a 12 week old daughter.
As for this other lunatic, fuck her off, well off. Nutcase.
6 years on i'm happily married with a 12 week old daughter.
As for this other lunatic, fuck her off, well off. Nutcase.
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Maybe if we saw the pics she was sendin we'd all think a bit clearer
I tell her to do one matey not worth the hassle if it was meant to be why she hot and cold all the time
if that was me id be
I tell her to do one matey not worth the hassle if it was meant to be why she hot and cold all the time
if that was me id be
Mind you I am tempted to sell them on Ebay. All proceeds to go to buying my mate a present to cheer the fooker up
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Just found out she's claiming to be with child :blonde:
If it was me I'd be
All this after he told her to sod off, he's no longer interested.
If it was me I'd be
All this after he told her to sod off, he's no longer interested.
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Defo a bunny boiler She deserves to have her pics posted up here ! He's probably only fed up with his long term g/f because the looney is showing interest in him. It happens us all. Tell him work on it with his g/f.
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Re: I need advice, woman trouble (as usual)
Originally Posted by collierm
Problem 1: He was having an affair with a girl he worked with.
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Get your mate to arrange for her to come to his house one night, then when she turns up, tell your mate to be wearing his missus's undies and loads of make up, and to make out he forget she was coming round to see him, that'll scare her off.
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Get your mate to arrange for her to come to his house one night, then when she turns up, tell your mate to be wearing his missus's undies and loads of make up, and to make out he forget she was coming round to see him, that'll scare her off.
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the first thing he should do is part company with his current partner.
Shows no respect for her doing what he`s doing & would be better in the long run for both parties.
the first thing he should do is part company with his current partner.
Shows no respect for her doing what he`s doing & would be better in the long run for both parties.
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'What goes around, comes around'
He's screwing around, he get's screwed around. Sort of justice in a way!
Seriously- he needs to ditch the bit on the side. She sounds like trouble!
He's screwing around, he get's screwed around. Sort of justice in a way!
Seriously- he needs to ditch the bit on the side. She sounds like trouble!
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And you want a sympathy vote!!!!
Fooking twat deserves everything he gets and to be kicked out of his house. Oh bring him on her for a HUGE pat on the back!!! Prick!!!
Fooking twat deserves everything he gets and to be kicked out of his house. Oh bring him on her for a HUGE pat on the back!!! Prick!!!
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Originally Posted by Rich_w
Rule No 1
Don't EVER jump through more than 2 hoops for a woman. Thats not a relationship, thats dependence
Rule No 2
Keep it in your pants!
It sounds like the house is in joint names and hes worried his infidelity will cause him to loose it. Well IMHO Tough! You cant have your cake and eat it! You can be sure if it was the other way round he'd want her out if the house as a forfeit.
Don't EVER jump through more than 2 hoops for a woman. Thats not a relationship, thats dependence
Rule No 2
Keep it in your pants!
It sounds like the house is in joint names and hes worried his infidelity will cause him to loose it. Well IMHO Tough! You cant have your cake and eat it! You can be sure if it was the other way round he'd want her out if the house as a forfeit.
who wants a man that jumps through hoops anyway, no wonder she playing games, it just isnt attractive if they at yr becon call!!
plus i wudnt get back with lass, no point using her and i hope she knows all about it n wont take him back as he obv a dick head anyway.
hope he ends up lonely!
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I like how the title is woman trouble (as usual)
Sounds like like this bird is a bit of a nut job but then she can afford to play games cos if your mates girlfriend finds out he is gonna be up shit creek without a paddle and fair play you cant always have your cake and eat it even tho most people thing they can
Sounds like like this bird is a bit of a nut job but then she can afford to play games cos if your mates girlfriend finds out he is gonna be up shit creek without a paddle and fair play you cant always have your cake and eat it even tho most people thing they can
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Originally Posted by angel24
'What goes around, comes around'
He's screwing around, he get's screwed around. Sort of justice in a way!
Seriously- he needs to ditch the bit on the side. She sounds like trouble!
He's screwing around, he get's screwed around. Sort of justice in a way!
Seriously- he needs to ditch the bit on the side. She sounds like trouble!
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My betting is (she's already tried the I'm pregnant one) she's goiing to use blackmail next - come back to me or I'll tell your g/f/wife kind of thing.
Only got himself to blame.
Only got himself to blame.
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Should ask her round for a romantic night in, but have the lads ready in wait and Bukakke her ass,
If she enjoys it fuck her off for being a slut.
If she dont enjoy it fuck her off for being a miserable cow
If she enjoys it fuck her off for being a slut.
If she dont enjoy it fuck her off for being a miserable cow
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Originally Posted by Big G
Should ask her round for a romantic night in, but have the lads ready in wait and Bukakke her ass,
If she enjoys it fuck her off for being a slut.
If she dont enjoy it fuck her off for being a miserable cow
If she enjoys it fuck her off for being a slut.
If she dont enjoy it fuck her off for being a miserable cow
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Originally Posted by collierm
Originally Posted by Big G
Should ask her round for a romantic night in, but have the lads ready in wait and Bukakke her ass,
If she enjoys it fuck her off for being a slut.
If she dont enjoy it fuck her off for being a miserable cow
If she enjoys it fuck her off for being a slut.
If she dont enjoy it fuck her off for being a miserable cow
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Originally Posted by Rallye Chick
Originally Posted by collierm
Originally Posted by Big G
Should ask her round for a romantic night in, but have the lads ready in wait and Bukakke her ass,
If she enjoys it fuck her off for being a slut.
If she dont enjoy it fuck her off for being a miserable cow
If she enjoys it fuck her off for being a slut.
If she dont enjoy it fuck her off for being a miserable cow
I reckon the bit on the side is playing the right game and is teaching him the right lesson.
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Girls girls girls,
Has nobody ever miseducated you in the basics,
A Guy who goes out and throw their population paste up anything female is a stud and pub hero,
A bird who gets dicked off more than 2 blokes in a 6 month period is a whore
Its a simple non fact of life.
Has nobody ever miseducated you in the basics,
A Guy who goes out and throw their population paste up anything female is a stud and pub hero,
A bird who gets dicked off more than 2 blokes in a 6 month period is a whore
Its a simple non fact of life.
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Originally Posted by Big G
Girls girls girls,
Has nobody ever miseducated you in the basics,
A Guy who goes out and throw their population paste up anything female is a stud and pub hero,
A bird who gets dicked off more than 2 blokes in a 6 month period is a whore
Its a simple non fact of life.
Has nobody ever miseducated you in the basics,
A Guy who goes out and throw their population paste up anything female is a stud and pub hero,
A bird who gets dicked off more than 2 blokes in a 6 month period is a whore
Its a simple non fact of life.
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Originally Posted by Big G
Girls girls girls,
Has nobody ever miseducated you in the basics,
A Guy who goes out and throw their population paste up anything female is a stud and pub hero,
A bird who gets dicked off more than 2 blokes in a 6 month period is a whore
Its a simple non fact of life.
Has nobody ever miseducated you in the basics,
A Guy who goes out and throw their population paste up anything female is a stud and pub hero,
A bird who gets dicked off more than 2 blokes in a 6 month period is a whore
Its a simple non fact of life.
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Most, if not all women are neurotic so I guess a bit of aggravation is to be expected if you’re mate starts playing silly buggers with them!
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FOOK ME, easy ladies
I don't condone what he did in the slightest, but bugger me, I'm trying to help him make the best decision out of a bad situation. Since I posted this, he's realised he's been a berk and now its all stopped and he just wants to know what to do.
A man who knows he did wrong = deserves a 2nd chance
A man who knows he did wrong and keeps going = deserves a 2nd kick in the bollocks.
My mate is the first one.
Oh, and if I ever become single again, I'm staying away from you PF ladies. Your all violent nutters
I don't condone what he did in the slightest, but bugger me, I'm trying to help him make the best decision out of a bad situation. Since I posted this, he's realised he's been a berk and now its all stopped and he just wants to know what to do.
A man who knows he did wrong = deserves a 2nd chance
A man who knows he did wrong and keeps going = deserves a 2nd kick in the bollocks.
My mate is the first one.
Oh, and if I ever become single again, I'm staying away from you PF ladies. Your all violent nutters
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shes fuked up and shes a using bitch who only wants him when it suits her she probs got other fellas hanging on wanting her 2
Tell ya mate to get a grip and fuk her off.
I've been there myself (I was single though) and it took me 6 months to realise i was just a lapdog for when it suited her.
If shes as fit as u say she is she knows it too so will have no end of blokes number in her mobile she'll have more than 1,2,3 etc for everyday of the week
Tell ya mate to get a grip and fuk her off.
I've been there myself (I was single though) and it took me 6 months to realise i was just a lapdog for when it suited her.
If shes as fit as u say she is she knows it too so will have no end of blokes number in her mobile she'll have more than 1,2,3 etc for everyday of the week