You know deep down a certain person deserves to know the truth, but you promised you wouldn't tell, what do you do? A promise is a promise, but on the other hand it's low. So low I can't concentrate thinking about it. I wouldn't ask but my head is wrecked.

What would you do?

Benni.

 

all depends what it is and who its about and who you feel the most loyality to i suppose but without knowing roughly what it is then its going too keep at you until you make a decision whether or not to say anything

 

Depends, if the person that told you is a really good mate, I wouldnt. But if the person that NEEDS to know is closer to you, then tell then.

I'd say it comes down to who you feel more loyal to.

 

send them hundreds of smilies

 

tell them to own up or else

 

it depends what would happen to this other person, i.e. if i was told by a "mate" that they were gonna hurt "another mate" i would "advise" "another mate" to stay in on the certain day... if you get me...

 

Havent we had a similar subject thread to this once before???

 

Not from me. If there's another one, I'd love to read it.

 

Oh sorry benni, i thought we had once.

My mistake

 

it does seem very familiar.

 

I don't remember? I doubt it. Just to add, the person who needs to know is a family member, and so is the person who is in the wrong. Both immediate family.

Benni.

 

I thought the same....

 

Lol! I'm pretty sure I've never made a thread like this. I always remember my threads.

Benni.

 

So did I could be wrong tho

 

https://passionford.com/forum/muppet...let-it-go.html

You are all thinking of the above thread, which was a complete wind up.

Benni.

 

so maybe this ones a complete wind up as well?

 

once a wind up always a wind up

 

Half of PF were in on the above thread. It was actually about Jim, I can't remember what now. A load of shit as usual. This is not a wind up, and involves no-one on PF.

Benni.

 

I've changed.

 

the way i see it, there's 2 choices, unless you divulge further i cant really comment much more.

1 - if said person is in danger, be it personal or otherwise, then you have an obligation to tell them.

2 - if it is a long going fued, or divorce etc. then stay well clear and act like you have never heard or seen anything.

other than that, i dont think there is much more i can say.

good luck

 

write to dear dierdrie

 

Deirdrie Barlow? She stopped me writing letters as she said Ken was becoming very jealous.

Benni.

 

Nice one. Based on this reply I am going to tell. I'll bribe the money I am owed out of said person first, and then tell anyway. Dirty I know, but I wan't my Money back and said person is in danger. Not physical danger but in other ways.

Benni.