mate the BEST thing you can do is the fucking hardest thing to do,,,, you need to go out and chill with your mates,,,,, letting bird see you as a twisted wreck aint gonna want them comming back


its a proven fact that the human mind will not accept being happy all the time,, we need shite to make us remmember what we got mate

if a bird treats a guy as there personal slave they will just cheat/get bored and move on aswell so not fair to blame just women on this one


seriously mate get going out a little and chill, get people round you and crash at a mates house,,, text her brief things,,, dont tell her what your upto,,, let her imagine it as shes gonna think the worst


dont get me wrong mind games are bollox but honestly they are how we all work !!!!


if you feel upto it mate come to blackpool this weekend and chill there with people off here,,,, you know new people and a change in surounding may help a little

if your round london area mate ill pick you up and drop you back sunday mate



we have ALL been though this mate,,,, ive been through it a few times and really needed my mates who ill never forget for helping me and that sorted my relationship out and its been better tbh


so let her do what ever,,,,, if shes gonna cheat mate shes gonna cheat,,,, you can only postpone what shes gonna do by stopping her as women can be devious and guys and girls are more loyal to women that blokes,,,,, so dont expect her mates,,,, or some of yours to be honest with ya mate


so to sumerise,,,,,,

1) chill at a mates house and someone whos gonna let ya crash there ( trust me playing playstation till 9am with just a mate and stella helps

2) come on the pissup with all of us from here and meet new people who wont remind you of the whats going on as theres so much new stuff to take in

3) only text her back and keep em impersonal and brief !!!!

any other help or you need a chat mate im always here,,,, i dont know ya but i have had a bird just turn when i knew nothing of it mate so i understand a little,,,,, tbh its prob why im less paitent now tbh,,, who knows



and if you do get back with her ( as i hope you do tbh) there will be loads of insecure moments that last for a few years to come mate,,,,, its nothing to be ashamed about as for a bird to leave you with no care about you is the same betrail as cheating tbh !!!!

good luck mate