Pardeep

My ex Sinead confessed something really fucking brutal to me today. This has got to be the worse thing to hear.

She confessed she was pregnant in July and didn't tell me. She took the test and also had the doc make it official. We had been planning a Child for next year. However she decided to go back to her Ex Fiance in August and Aborted the baby without me knowing that i would have been a Dad come March/April 2010.

She's crying saying she made a big mistake etc but i can't help but feel Furious

Does it come any worse than that???

Rick Astley

What is good is that you are no longer with the deceptive little skank.

Pardeep

True but what a cunt she turned out to be!!!

cabrio zo

She sounds like a complete ASW to be honest.

Why tell you now, must've known it'd cause hurt, nothing but spiteful if you ask me, if its true

Z

Coldo

Sounds like the kind of thing a nutty burd would make up to get at you/seek attention/be a cow, imo.

Pardeep

Not really cos i spoke to her mate Carla and although she stopped talking to Sinead after we split, Carla came clean and said she was.

Paddy

On the positive side, you know there's nothing wrong with your little ninja tadpoles.

Pardeep

cabrio zo

Should've kept it to herself IMO, deliberately screwing with you head telling you.

Z

Toymota

it might be hard to accept but if she is already your ex, then it was probably a blessing in disguise.....

CraigoScott

iTrader: (1)

smells like shit, looks like shit, i think that must be shit mate! ive read what you have said about her on here before, and she sounds like a headcase! more than likely making that up!! shes got no way of proving it has she, so she can make up whatever she wants!

next week she will be asking you to take her back!

kick her in the clunge while you can and then tell her to go forth and never come back!

i wouldnt even talk to her ever again!

nealo

The question i would be asking myself is why the hell is she telling you this now if she is..

A, no longer with you?
b, back with her ex fiance?

There is absolutely NO good to come from what she is telling you so i dont understand what she thinks the point is in telling you something like this?

Better off without her if you ask me

Pardeep

She already has. Well she said she regrets getting back with her ex Fiance. This time she isn't bullshitting cos her brother knew about it and cut her off completely after she aborted. His question to me was 'How did you find out?'

Mrs T

you know what i think

Rick Astley

Anal sex is the future?

cfoster

Piss her off and tell her fiance the story, am sure he will be pissed knowing his current missus did something like that to another bloke.

Pardeep

Yes, She's a complete CUNT!!!

rsnissan

iTrader: (9)

was your uncles RS4 the B7 shape?

xr2i-carl

Mate thats hardcore news.... Is she just screwing with you though? Is she still with her fiance?

Mrs T

maybe for you but not me

Roscco

I agree here TBH. Unless you were gettin' back together and getting a completely honest fresh start, i can't see what there's to accomplish by telling you.

Is guaranteed to cause a reaction, and a devestating blow to boot.

Shitty news, i feel for ya.

RSTurboSI

iTrader: (1)

use protection when having sex?

BIG.GEOFF.H

Lucky escape is the best way to think abt it. imagine having a kid with her then her leaving you and she sounds like the type to not let you see the kid. and the next step would be to get a batman suit and go climbing up stuff. very lucky imo

Pardeep

I'm popping to hers later with a bag full of the stuff she bought/gave me.

58 plate. Don't know much about what Audi call their body styles.

I thought it at first but this time she's not. Her brother is coming down to talk to me about what went down. She spoke to him before she aborted and he told her that she should atleast told me. She didn't and he hasn't spoken to her since!

Pardeep

Don't think thats relevant since we were planning a child.

RSTurboSI

iTrader: (1)

which ways the door?

xr2i-carl

Whats the timeline of eventS? She was engaged? then ended up dating you? for how long? as an affair etC?

Toymota

what confuses me is, if you were planning a child anyway, why did she have a termination??

Elvis

iTrader: (1)

Mate, forget her, have a kid with someone who aint mad.
anyway dude, if you need a drink/chat or meet some random bints for fun let me know

Elvis

iTrader: (1)

p.s tell her shes a murderer and to do one

Pardeep

Year and a half of being together. When we met she was engaged to to the fella she is back with and somehow i did something and she wanted to be with me.

She could have been in touch with her Ex while i was away making money for her and the girls.

I'll take you up on that offer soon mate. Just need to take out the trash for good...

Toymota

if thats the case, is it really worth dwelling over? personally, i wouldnt have anything to do with her again.
find someone who deserves to have a baby with you

BM08

Thats awful mate, but could have been even worse if she told you she just got home from the clinic and shes got HIV.

So chin up

Pardeep

True but i'm more fucked off that i didn't know. If it was a decision we made together then fair enough but obviously not.

Pardeep

LOL, Cheers for the giggle!!!

Toymota

if she had the abortion, you will probably find that if you could go back in time and talk about things, she would probably still go through with it. and then it may be even harder for you!

AJC

iTrader: (6)

trust me, i've had worse

Alan_D

She sounds like a nightmare. We've all had them, but what she did was shit.

Saying that, why did she tell you now? Obviously wanted to affect you to get some kind of emotional response.

Alan_D

Ah right, missed that.

Pardeep

Oh she'll get a great response tonight. Just waiting for her brother to arrive and we'll see what happens.